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10 Ways to Instantly Elevate Your Dating Market Value

The Love Script | Javi Osei
3 min readMar 22, 2025

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Dating is a market. And whether we like it or not, we all come with perceived value based on how we show up — emotionally, physically, and energetically.

The good news? You’re not stuck with the “value” someone else assigns you. You can elevate it — fast. And when you do? Everything shifts. You stop wondering “Why didn’t I get chosen?” and start realizing “I get to choose.”

Here are 10 practical ways to boost your confidence, desirability, and overall dating market value:

1. Upgrade Your Self-Care Routine

You do not have to look like a supermodel, but a woman who takes care of herself? Radiates confidence.

  • schedule the facial
  • get your nails done
  • upgrade your signature scent
  • Whatever you need to do to feel comfortable and good in your own skin

When you feel good in your skin, you act differently — and everyone notices. Please stop thinking that focusing on your beauty maintenance is superficial. Research indicates that well-groomed women are perceived more positively in social interactions, which can enhance their desirability in dating contexts.

2. Curate a Life You Love (Before Anyone…

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The Love Script | Javi Osei
The Love Script | Javi Osei

Written by The Love Script | Javi Osei

Helping women write the love story they deserve — one script, one conversation, one boundary at a time. Follow me: @thelovescript | www.thelove-script.com

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