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13 Red Flags To Look Out For in A Woman

The Love Script | Javi Osei
4 min readJul 13, 2024

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A few months ago, I wrote 8 Signs That a Man Is a Loser. It seems fitting to follow up with the counterpart. Choosing a life partner is one of the most significant decisions you can make. It’s crucial to recognize the red flags that may indicate someone is not well-suited to share a life with you. While no one is perfect, some behaviors and traits can signify deeper issues that could make achieving a healthy relationship challenging.

Here are 13 red flags to look out for in a woman:

1. Constant Negativity

A perpetual state of negativity can drain the life out of any relationship. If a woman always sees the glass as half-empty, complains incessantly, or fails to appreciate the good things in life, it can create a toxic atmosphere. Attitudes and energy are contagious and it will only be a matter of time before this influences your attitude for the worse.

2. Lack of Ambition

While not everyone needs to be climbing the corporate ladder, a complete lack of ambition or goals can be a red flag. If she has no drive, aspirations, or passion for anything in life, it indicates a lack of motivation and responsibility, which are crucial for a balanced partnership.

3. Disrespect and Contempt

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The Love Script | Javi Osei
The Love Script | Javi Osei

Written by The Love Script | Javi Osei

Helping women write the love story they deserve — one script, one conversation, one boundary at a time. Follow me: @thelovescript | www.thelove-script.com

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